It is what it is...

A photograph taken during a moment in time...Our last family photo was taken at my son Christopher's graduation in 2002. Since then many pictures have been taken, but none with all of us together.

Seven years later...time has healed some hurts, but time has not erased the love I have for the father of my children. I made a promise in 1980. For better or worse...to be faithful...I took the promise seriously...he didn't. We move on and learn to live with the regrets. Our lives change and we accept the changes. He will always have a special place in my heart. He is the father of my children...

A photograph taken during a moment in time...

Happy Birthday, Baby!

A Happy Birthday Wish for the father of my two great kids.

"We've seen some good times, been through some bad.
But somewhere between the laughter and the tears
we sure had a lot of great years.
We didn't need fortune we didn't need fame
just a little shelter from the rain.
I didn't need a castle made of stone
all I ever needed was you."
We both made major mistakes in our relationship and I have many regrets, but in spite of all, you hold a special place in my heart. Through my journey of healing due to the sweet grace of God, I have learned to love and forgive...myself and you.

Even though we both have went on in different directions, who knows...life has been known to take crazy turns...see ya around...

So here's to you, Baby...31 years later and still as handsome as you were in that summer of 1978. What a summer...EVERYTHING was good!